73. Making the Invisible Mental Load Visible: How to Share the Load Without the Stress [Part 3]

You’re juggling everything, but no one seems to notice.You’re the one keeping track of school emails, therapy appointments, meal plans, and a million invisible tasks.Your brain never stops. The mental gymnastics of managing everything is exhausting.And when something doesn’t get done? That’s the only thing anyone notices.🔥 This is the invisible mental load. And if it feels like it’s breaking you, you’re not alone.PLUS we've put together A Kit for Making the Mental Load Visible (and Finally Sharing it). Download HERE.In this episode, we’re breaking it all down:Why ADHD mums feel the weight of the mental load harder than anyone elseThe unseen tasks that no one else even thinks aboutWhy your partner isn’t stepping in - and how to finally shift the balancePractical ways to make the invisible load visible - without it turning into another argumentSmall, realistic changes that actually helpThis isn’t about doing more - it’s about making sure you don’t have to carry it all alone.RESOURCES MENTIONED:Why Mums Are Always the Backup Plan - Part 17 Brutally Honest Reasons ADHD Mums Stay Silent About the Mental Load - Part 2 Family Meeting Template Mental Load CardsSTART HERE: https://adhdmums.com.au/start-here/ Sometimes, the hardest part is knowing where to start – especially when your brain already feels like it’s juggling a hundred tabs at once. That’s why this space was built to make things easier, not harder. No fluff, no wasted time – just resources designed to meet you exactly where you are.JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at [email protected]. TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:ADHD mental load, invisible mental load, sharing the mental load, ADHD mums, burnout, overwhelm, emotional labour, neurodivergent relationships, partner support, ADHD and parenting, mental load resentment, executive function challenges, ADHD household balance, relationship struggles, ADHD and marriage, division of labour, cognitive hyperactivity, unseen tasks, ADHD family dynamics, mental load exhaustion, practical strategies for ADHD mums, ADHD mum burnout, balancing responsibilities, neurodivergent parenting, ADHD-friendly household management, supporting an ADHD partner, communication in ADHD relationships, household workload, ADHD decision fatigue, ADHD overwhelm solutions.Mentioned in this episode:ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook: A System for ADHD MumsSimplify your chaotic ADHD mum life with the ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook. Designed to help you brain dump the chaos, prioritise what truly matters, and stop the guilt spiral, these tools are 100% fluff-free and built for real-life use. Start anytime, pick up and put down as needed, and create a system that works with your ADHD, not against it.ADHD PlannerSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.