In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.     Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons? Do women like dick pics? Connection games for lovers What do I do if sex starts to feel dull? Why does it hurt when I have sex? Is it normal to have never orgasmed? How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss:  What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia  Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table  If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner?   Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]

In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever. Emily and Melissa discuss:  Prostate cancer How cancer can affect sexual function Penis rehabilitation project Treating erectile difficulties after cancer Prevalence of erectile difficulties after prostate cancer What penis owners can do during prostate cancer treatment to support their penis and sexual function  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Melissa's links The Penis Project Podcast: Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/ Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com   Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders  Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount. Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/ TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA MAGIC MIND: You have a limited offer you can use now, that gets you up to 48% offyour first subscription or 20% off one time purchases with code ORGASMIC20 at checkout You can claim it at: https://magicmind.com/ORGASMIC20See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever. Emily and Melissa discuss:  The most common concerns in Melissa’s clinic Peyronies disease Erectile dysfunction How to treat erectile dysfunction Tips for if you lose your erection during sex Tips for a healthier penis  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Melissa's links The Penis Project Podcast: Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/ Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com   Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders  Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount. Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/ TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoASee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one

154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.   My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad?    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered -  part 1

This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia.  Emily and Dr. Cat discuss:  What is menopause? What is Perimenopause? Menopause myths Vaginal atrophy  Sex and menopause How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Dr. Cat's Instagram @drcatobgyn Winona website: https://bywinona.com/authors/dr-brownSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

152 You don't need to suffer, the truth about menopause with Dr. Cathleen Brown

In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding.  Topics include:  What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How to talk to your partner about cuckolding Things to think about in terms of cuckolding  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

151 Cuckolding, what it is and how to it

In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access. This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue. Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex-work-counselling FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

150 Why disabled folk need sex workers

In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

149 So you want to increase your desire for sex?

Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault.  In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia.    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) References:  Guilleminault, C., Moscovitch, A., Yuen, K., &amp; Poyares, D. (2002). Atypical sexual behaviour during sleep. Psychosomatic Medicine, 64, 328-336 Mangan, M., A. (2004). A Phenomenology of Problematic Sexual Behaviour Occurring in Sleep. Archives of Sexual Behaviour, 33, 287-293.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

148 Having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia

This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand.   Emily, Stace and Ty discuss:  What is Under the Sheets How Under the Sheets support couples and individuals sex lives Exhibitionism and how Stace and Ty decided to explore it Tips for exploring exhibitionism  Increasing intimacy and confidence in the bedroom What Stace and Ty are exploring in their own sex life Blowjob tip Thrusting tip for better sex  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Check out Under The Sheet with the following link: https://underthesheets.mn.co/share/Mn4CJqu6ApdY9Jfj?utm_source=manual Stace and Ty's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spicewithstaceandty/ Stace and Ty's other links (OF, TIKTOK, FANSLY, X): https://www.linkswithstaceandty.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

147 Exhibitionism, thrusting techniques and embracing your inner slut or alpha male with Stace and Ty from Under The Sheets

This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex &amp; Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual intimacy and passion. She also works with single women on embodying their sexuality and working through the dating process to create a future relationship they desire.   Emily and Irene discuss:  Irene's experience with a sexless relationship What leads to a sexless relationship How to reestablish connection in a sexless relationship Highly sensitive people and what that looks like Sex for a highly sensitive person Pre-sex needs for highly sensitive women How to cultivate sexual desire How a partner of a highly sensitive person can support them    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Irene's website: www.irenefehr.com Irene's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ignitedwoman/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

146 Navigating a sexless relationship with Irene Fehr

This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality.  Emily and Niamh discuss:  What is a developmental educator? What is neurodivergence? What are sensory needs? What is a sexuality sensory diet? What is a Sexuality Dopamenu? Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu Neurodivergent love langauges  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Niamh's website: https://www.myfriendinsexed.com/about Niamh's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfriendinsexed/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

145 Neurodivergent love languages, sensory needs during sex and sexuality dopamenus with Niamh Mannion

In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

144 Why you don't need a bigger penis

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book. Emily and Dana discuss:  Dana’s experience with OCD Paedophilic OCD How to support somebody with OCD BDSM Is BDSM spiritually good for you? Our experiences with orgasm becoming easier to obtain Dana’s experience with UTIs  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Dana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writerdanadasilva/ Buy Dan’a’s book The Shift’: https://www.amazon.com.au/Shift-memoir-Dana-Silva/dp/0648630005See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose. In this episode Emily and Dr. Sarah Ashton discuss:  What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? The prevalence of BPD Common BPD misconceptions How BPD can impact romantic relationships How people with BPD can maintain healthy relationships How BPD can impact sex How a partner of somebody with BPD can support them  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) SHIPS Psychology Website: https://www.shipspsychology.com.au/ SHIPS Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipspsychology/ SHIPS Training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shipstraining/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

142 Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador. Emily and Nova discuss:  What is a cam girl Unique requests Nova has had What is sugaring Nova's experience falling in love with her sugar daddy Misconceptions of sugaring Misconceptions about being a sex worker  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Nova's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nova_hawthorne/?hl=en Nova's links: https://www.novahawthorne.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) DOAC episode with Paul Brunson mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2QWA2icgSDpvuANneF0EKF?si=342ed0e2607744a9See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps 

In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and podcaster. Emily and Bek discuss:  Bek's experience of being diagnosed with herpes Should people disclose their herpes status? When to disclose your herpes status How to disclose your herpes status How to deal with rejection Tips for getting back into dating after a positive HSV diagnosis  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Bek's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bekantonucci/ Bek's links (website, podcast, masterclasses and boot camps): https://shor.by/mSuQ  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss:  What is sexual expression How to create your sexual expression Advice for support workers in talking about sex with your client  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/ Resources  TV / Film * Latecomers, 2022 (SBS) * Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS) * Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix) * The Intouchables, 2011 * The Sessions, 2012 * Inside I’m Dancing, 2014 Influencers / Educators  * Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex) * Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6) * Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton) * Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking) * Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw) * Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee) Books * The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal. Toys Bump’n * https://getbumpn.com/  HotOctopuss * https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ -     See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

138 Exploring your sexual expression with disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part Two

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss:  Oliver’s experience of growing up in Australia and learning about sex with Spastic Quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy  Oliver’s experience accessing masturbation and partnered sex Oliver’s experience of dating Infantilisation Oliver's tips for accessing sex with a disability   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.   Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Oliver’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oliver_me79/ Resources  TV / Film * Latecomers, 2022 (SBS) * Erotic Stories, Ep 3, ‘Bound’ 2023 (SBS) * Margarita with a Straw, 2014 (Netflix) * The Intouchables, 2011 * The Sessions, 2012 * Inside I’m Dancing, 2014   Influencers / Educators  * Eva Sweeney (FB: crippingupsex) * Andrew Gurza (IG: andrewgurza6) * Hannah Witton (IG: hannahwitton) * Melinah Viking (IG: melinahviking) * Shane Burcaw (IG: shaneburcaw) * Kelly Gordon (IG: mskelgee) Books * The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illness, C Silverberg etal. Toys Bump’n * https://getbumpn.com/  HotOctopuss * https://www.hotoctopuss.com/articles/sex-for-all/sex-and-disability/sex-and-disability-products/ -   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One

In this episode, I am joined by Adrienne Rommel also known as the Yoni Nutritionist who helps people get to the ROOT CAUSE of their chronic vaginal infections with holistic nutrition and wellness practices, so they can feel confident in their sex lives again! Emily and Adrienne discuss:  What is vaginal health? What impacts vaginal health? How menstrual cycles affect vaginal health What is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and Thrush? Why do some people experience recurring infections? How to stop recurring infections? Can a relationship cause vaginal infections? The diet to eat to stop recurring Thrush and improve vaginal health Do natural treatments for vaginal infections work?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Adrienne's Website: https://yoninutritionist.com/ Adrienne's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yoninutritionist/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

136 How to stop recurring Thrush, Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and UTIs with Adrienne Rommel

In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who is a relationship coach for couples who colour outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing With Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Emily and Joli discuss:  What is jealousy What is envy Is jealousy bad? What jealousy can teach you? When jealousy can be harmful How to experience jealousy in a healthy way How jealousy appears in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships Compersion The jealousy roadmap How to support your partner when they are working through jealousy  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Dr. Joli Hamilton's website: https://www.jolihamilton.com/ Dr. Joli Hamilton's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

135 Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, navigating jealousy in your relationship with Dr. Joli Hamilton

In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life.  Emily and Jordana discuss:  Performance anxiety to eat pussy How to eat pussy How to practice pussy worshipping How to get to know your pussy Getting out of your head and into your body  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) JORDY'S INSTAGRAM  FREE PLEASURE MAPPING SESSION WITH JORDYSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

134 How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra

In this episode, I am joined by Reed Amber Litman-Thomas who is a UK sex educator, activist and co-host of an amazing podcast Come Curious.  Trigger warning this episode discusses consensual non-consensual (CNC) and there are trigger words in this conversation. Emily and Reed discuss:  What is OCD Intrusive thoughts How to let thoughts go How OCD impacts sex What consensual non-consent (CNC) is What CNC can look like How to set up CNC How to talk about CNC to your partner Finding your sexual boundaries and limits Tickle fetish  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Reed's Links: https://linktr.ee/reedamberxxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

133  Consensual non-consent and Obsessive Complusive Disorder and Sex with Reed Amber Thomas-Litmas

In this episode, I am joined by Silvia Saige. Silvia is a comedian, writer, social media personality, and podcast host of Sexy Funny Raw. Silvia aims to change how people view - not only women and sex - but the conversation about sex in general. Trigger warning this episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. It is discussed at the end of the episode when Emily asks the final question ‘What’s something that is orgasmic to you?’ Emily and Silvia discuss:  The porn industry Common misconceptions about Porn What Silvia has learnt being in the porn industry What makes good sex Silvia’s sex tips Tips for using butt plugs How to dirty talk How to be more assertive and active during sex Sex positions for women who want to take the reigns but aren’t just cowgirl (on top) Silvia’s most orgasmic sexual experience Silvia’s least orgasmic sexual experience Double penetration  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.  Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Silvia’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesilviasaige/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

132 Double penetration, dirty talk and butt plugs with Silvia Saige

In today's episode Emily discusses rejection. What it is? Why we experience it? and how to deal with it. Emily focuses on romantic rejection from people we are dating.  Emily gives 7 tips and pieces of advice on how to deal with rejection. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. The Please Centre Instagram post link: https://www.instagram.com/p/C4FUpGVvtGS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

131 Dealing with rejection 

In this episode, Emily discusses how to pleasure a flaccid penis in different ways. Join my sunroom ☀️ https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic Join via their website to get 30% off my Sunroom membership.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

130 How to pleasure a soft cock

This is a bonus episode from the podcast Good Enough Nutrition by Nadia Maxwell. Good Enough Nutrition podcast is a podcast discussing nutrition, wellbeing, intuitive eating and body image with a sprinkle of all things periods and hormones.  In this episode, we chat about:  What is a Sexologist Why Emily became a Sexologist Why you should get to know your genitals How body image plays a role in dating and intimacy Strategies for improving body image and intimacy Sensate Focus How you can get to know your body better  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Good Enough Nutrition Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0B3tQlNbtGGbM8aF7ahGcw?si=b3dcc744151c43cd  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

129 Body image & dating, sensate focus and getting to know your genitals with Nadia Maxwell (BONUS EPISODE from Good Enough Nutrition Podcast)

This episode features Dr. Elliot Justin MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectile fitness. Emily and Dr. Elliot discuss:  What is erectile health? How to have a healthier erection The link between cardiovascular health and erections What is erectile dysfunction How to support erectile difficulties  Benefits of a cocking What Firm Tech cock rings tell you about erectile health Penis pumps What sex positions impact your erection  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Firm Tech Website: https://myfirmtech.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

128 How to get a bigger and harder erection. Discussing erectile health with Dr. Elliot Justin

This episode features Evana De Lune, one of Australia's most sought-after Burlesque performers. Evana has over 20 years of dance experience covering jazz, tap, ballet, contemporary and commercial dance styles. As well as performing, Evana is a highly regarded burlesque teacher and mentor, who has shared her wealth of experience with students at Melbourne's, Maison Burlesque and now runs her own Burlesque Workshops around Australia. In this episode, Emily and Evana discuss:  Burlesque, what it is and what it isn't Evana's story  The Monash University Christmas Party scandal The backlash Burlesque receives Is Burlesque anti-feminist? A wild performance of Evana's What not to do at a Burlesque performance  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Evana De Lune's website: https://www.evanadelune.com/ Evana De Lune's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evanadelune/?hl=enSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

127 Burlesque: Navigating controversy, empowerment and wild performances with Evana De Lune

This episode features Hugh Crothers, who is the founder of drip, a sexual well-being brand he started in 2020 catering to people who are curious and diverse when it comes to sex. In this episode Emily and Hugh discuss:  Why Hugh founded drip Where Hugh learnt about Queer sex as a gay man Shame attached to lube Erectile difficulties What makes sex orgasmic for Hugh What makes sex not so orgasmic for Hugh  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Drip website: https://dripfeed.life/ Drip Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dripfeed.life/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

126 Cruising, lube, maintaining erections and queer sex with Drip founder Hugh Crothers

This episode is part two of a two-part episode In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina break down typical scenarios parents find themselves in when it comes to talking about sex with their kids.  They discuss:  Finding your teenager watching porn and masturbating Your child finds your vibrator You walk in on your teenager being sexual with another person  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Dr. Tina's website: https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Shameless Parenting Book: https://www.amazon.com/Shameless-Parenting-Everything-Shame-free-Confident/dp/B095GDF9LM Dr. Tina's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtinashameless/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

125 I walked in on my teenager having sex, what do I do? With Dr. Tina Schemer Sellers Part 2

This episode is part one of a two-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina discuss how to talk to your kids about sex. They discuss the below topics:  Who’s responsibility is it to teach kids about sex? What does age-appropriate sex mean? What is the typical sexual development of a child? When we should start teaching our kids about sex Common mistakes parents make when they teach their kids about sex Where parents should go if their kid has a sex question and doesn’t know the answer What to do if you are a parent with sexual shame  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.   Dr. Tina's website: https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Shameless Parenting Book: https://www.amazon.com/Shameless-Parenting-Everything-Shame-free-Confident/dp/B095GDF9LM Dr. Tina's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drtinashameless/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

124 Talking to your kids about sex with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Part 1

Season 5 of That's Orgasmic is here. Today Emily shares a personal story on her experience with an Anterior Wall Prolapse AKA a Cystocele.  Emily discusses:  Her personal story What prolapses are and the different types Why you may develop a prolapse Sex and a prolapse Treatment How to reduce your risk of prolapse The reality of living with a prolapse at age 23  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

123 My bladder fell into my vagina...living with a prolapse

This episode features Miss Kannina who is a proud Yorta Yorta, Djadja Wurrung, Kalkadoon and Yirendali woman who has taken the Australian live music landscape by storm. Miss Kaninna has most recently been awarded as the Triple J Unearthed Music Artist of the Year.  Her song ‘Blak Britney’ arrived in May to critical acclaim. An anti-establishment anthem written to amplify the voices of Blak women, the single landed full rotation and within a fortnight was the #1 most-played song on triple j. Miss Kaninna has also just released her new song Pinnacle Bitch. Emily and Miss Kaninna discuss:  Miss Kaninna’s life story Miss Kaninna’s experience in the music industry as an Indigenous woman How people have responded to Miss Kaninna’s music What empowers Miss Kaninna to discuss sexuality in her music Miss Kaninna’s advice for anyone wanting to step into their sexuality Miss Kaninna’s most orgasmic sex Miss Kaninna’s least orgasmic sex Food ASMR  Miss Kaninna’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misskaninna  Miss Kaninna’s TikTok: : https://www.tiktok.com/@misskaninna   Can you see Miss Kaninna live below: Fri 8 Dec: Meredith Music Festival, Wadawurrung Country/Meredith Sat 9 - Sun 10 Dec: Always Live: HOMETOWN, Yorta Yorta Country/Kanny-goopna/Shepparton Wed 27 Dec: HAYDAYS Music Festival, Nipaluna/Hobart Sat 30 Dec: Beyond The Valley, Wadawurrung &amp; Eastern Marr Country/Barunah Plains Sun 31 Dec: Wildlands, Meanjin/Brisbane Mon 1 Jan: Sun Cycle, Naarm/Melbourne Sat 6 Jan: Wildlands, Boorloo/Perth Sat 3 Feb: Laneway Festival, Brisbane/Meanjin Sun 4 Feb: Laneway Festival, Eora/Sydney Fri 9 Feb: Laneway Festival, Kaurna Yerta/Adelaide Sat 10 Feb: Laneway Festival, Naarm/Melbourne Sun 11 Feb: Laneway Festival, Boorloo/Perth Fri 8 -Sat 16 Mar: SXSW 2024, Tonkawa, Comanche &amp; Apache Land/Austin TXSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

122 From orgasmic music to orgasmic sex with Miss Kaninna

In this episode Emily answers a listener's question 'My Vagina tears every time I have sex, what can I do?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

121 My vagina splits every time I have sex

This episode features Jenay who is a certified relationship and life coach and host of her podcast ‘My Naked Mindset’ which is a sex and dating podcast.  Emily and Jenay discuss:  How Jenay became a relationship and life coach Jenay’s experience in her hoe phase Why Jenay went on 20 first dates in 2019 What Jenay learned from her dating experiences Jenay’s worst date How to find people to date Advice for those wanting to date Advice for those with shame around hoe phases and dating   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Jenny’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mynakedmindset/ Jenay’s website: https://mynakedmindsetpodc.wixsite.com/mynakedmindsetSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

120 Embracing your hoe phase with Jenay

This episode features Celeste Moore an image consultant and dating coach who helps midlife men who have forgotten how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships and confidence. Emily and Celeste discuss:  How a dating and image consultant can help you Celeste’s client demographic The biggest dating issues Celeste sees in men Is appearance important? What are good first-date questions? How to overcome your fear of getting back into dating How can we date better?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Celeste’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celestemooreimage/ Celeste’s website: https://celestemoore.com/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

119 Men, this is how to date with Celeste Moore 

This episode features Susan Bratton who is an intimacy expert to millions. Emily and Susan discuss:  What Susan’s experience with her sexuality has been like throughout her life Semen retention Ejaculatory choice Vaginal Atrophy and what you can do about it Throat orgasms Penis pump benefits How to use a penis pump How to help men not be concerned about performance How to care for genitals as we age  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Susan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/ Susan’s website: https://susanbratton.com/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

118 Throatgasms, penis pumps and sexuality as we age with Susan Bratton

This episode features Alice Lovegood who is a sex educator, life coach and spicy creator. Emily and Alice discuss:  How Alice got into this field Alice’s favourite thing about creating spicy only fans content Alice’s favourite content to create Breastmilk play/erotic lactation/milk fetishism ADHD and BDSM How can kink support those who are neurodiverse What is subspace  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Alice’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bettersx.blog/?hl=en Alice’s website: https://bettersx.blog/blogs/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

117 Breastmilk play and ADHD & BDSM with Alice Lovegood

This episode features Isiah McKimme, a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover deeper intimacy and desire for over a decade. Emily and Isiah discuss:  How Isiah got into her work What is Tantra What is Tantric sex How Tantra can benefit your sex life Practices to do to tap into your sexuality  Tantric practices for patterned people Can you orgasm without touching your body? What it is like to experience tantra  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Isiah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isiahmckimmie.sexologist/ Isiah’s website: https://isiah-mckimmie.com/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

116 Can we orgasm without being touched? Exploring Tantra with Isiah McKimme

This episode features Samantha Manovski who is a relationship and intimacy coach. Emily and Sam discuss:  What Sam thinks of society’s current expectations of romantic relationships Common mistakes Sam sees people make in relationships How to have better conflict in relationships with the Harmony method Attachment styles Imposter syndrome as a coach/therapist  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Sam’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samantha_wanderinglove/ Sam’s website: https://www.wanderinglove.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

115 Mistakes we're making in our relationships with Samantha Manovski

This episode is the live show Emily hosted at Piano Bar Geelong in August 2023 with Bridget Scholes from Sexploration. Emily and Bridget discuss:  Desire How to talk about your desires with your partner/s Kink vs Fetish Arse play Non-monogamy, threesomes and sex parties  Emily and Bridget also answered the crowd's questions:  In a libido-imbalanced relationship, how do you initiate/ask for sex and spontaneity in a sexy and unforced way? How do I approach girls as a bi girl with a fear of rejection? I'm a woman and my AMAB partner recently came out as a trans woman. Do you have any tips for exploring a new sexual dynamic so we can both embrace our femininity? How do you get yourself out of a dry spell? Do you know much about sexsomnia? How can I discuss my sexual health status with new partners safely? Do you have any knowledge about vulvadynia? Every time I have sex with my partner or partners I get micro tears at the entrance of my vulva. Are there ways to avoid this?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

114 Exploring your deeper desires LIVE SHOW with sexploration

In this episode, Emily responds to a listener's dilemma about sharing bodily fluids with the people who have sex with his girlfriend and spicing up cuckolding/voyeurism.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

113 I don't like to share bodily fluids with the men who fuck my girlfriend

This episode features Marc the founder of Happie Holl. Emily and Marc discuss all things butts and Happie Holl’s products:  After Anal Cooling Cream Sore Butt Soothing Balm  Topics included:  Marc's relationship with his butt Emily’s relationship with her butt Anal fissures Anal training How Happie Holl’s products can benefit you What the response has been like creating a butt care product  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Happie Holl’s website: https://happieholl.com.au/ Happie Holl’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happieholl/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

112 Anal training, play and fissures with Marc from Happie Holl

In this episode, Emily answers the question 'What lubricant should I use?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

111 What lube should I use?

This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo" topics like sex, pleasure and non-traditional relationships into the light. Emily and Cindra discuss:  Cindra’s journey with her sexuality What queer sex is What Cindra has learnt from her queer sexual experiences Advice for those wanting to explore queer sex Is lesbian sex just scissoring? How to explore intimacy Shame during sex How to bring up difficult feelings during sex instead of pushing through them When being lovey, cuddly and cute in your relationship does not translate to hot steamy sex Strap ons  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Cindra’s Instagram: @cindrabanks Cindra’s website: https://www.cindrabanks.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

This episode is answering the question ‘how do I become a sexologist?’ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Society of Australian Sexologists: https://societyaustraliansexologists.org.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

109 How to become a sexologist or sex therapist

In this episode Emily answers a listeners question 'Can you suggest some new things I could do in bed that would surprise my partner? I mean we have all heard about normal intercourse and oral sex. Apart from these what acts can I do to impress somebody?'   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

108 How to impress somebody in the bedroom

This episode features Deborah Kagan who is a speaker, author, mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She supports entrepreneurs, small business owners, consultants, creatives and the career-oriented to tap into their innate power and connect with their mojo – a source of true self-esteem. Her methods combine over 25 years of experience in personal development, metaphysical studies and embodiment practices. She is the creator of the Rock Your Mojo™ programs, author of Find Your ME Spot: 52 Ways to Reclaim Your Confidence, Feel Good in Your Own Skin and Live a Turned On Life. She is also the host of The Real Undressed Podcast. Emily and Deborah discuss:  What is it like to be a turned-on woman? What is our MOJO? How can we tap into our sexual energy? Daily pussy check-ins Pussy dancing Masculine and feminine energy when dating Deborah's new book Undressed  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong follow the link below:  https://bookings.nowbookit.com/?accountid=c306271a-a403-461f-b7d1-229e79743113&amp;theme=dark&amp;accent=hex,000000,fafafa&amp;venueid=10086&amp;date=2023-08-24&amp;serviceids=event_41HV35B61C089_1690515625027   Deborah's Instagram: @deborahkagan Deborah's Website: https://www.deborah-kagan.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

107 How to find your sexual energy with Deborah Kagan

In this episode, Emily answers a listener's question about vulva owners having multiple orgasms. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong follow the link below:  https://bookings.nowbookit.com/?accountid=c306271a-a403-461f-b7d1-229e79743113&amp;theme=dark&amp;accent=hex,000000,fafafa&amp;venueid=10086&amp;date=2023-08-24&amp;serviceids=event_41HV35B61C089_1690515625027  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

106 Is it ok for a girl to cum multiple times? 

This episode features Nicole from Your Say Nicole. Nicole is a coach, leader and podcast host who teaches individuals to stop and embody their power to achieve limitless success and fulfilment in their life. Emily and Nicole discuss:  Nicole's journey to becoming a coach How Nicole supports those who are feeling lost in their life direction Learning how to stop Decluttering your life What to look for in a coach Nicole’s coming out story and her journey with her sexuality Not feeling like you fit  Human Design  People not accepting you Disconnecting from your phone  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for a chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong, follow the link below:  https://bookings.nowbookit.com/?accountid=c306271a-a403-461f-b7d1-229e79743113&amp;theme=dark&amp;accent=hex,000000,fafafa&amp;venueid=10086&amp;date=2023-08-24&amp;serviceids=event_41HV35B61C089_1690515625027 Nicole’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yoursaybynicole/ Nicole’s website: https://www.yourart.com.au/shop-1 Nicole’s podcast: https://www.yoursaybynicole.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

105 Are you happy with your life? with Nicole

In this episode, Emily is answering another listener's question. The question was 'What is the best sex toy for a submissive wife?' To buy tickets to the live show at Piano Bar Geelong follow the link below:  https://bookings.nowbookit.com/?accountid=c306271a-a403-461f-b7d1-229e79743113&amp;theme=dark&amp;accent=hex,000000,fafafa&amp;venueid=10086&amp;date=2023-08-24&amp;serviceids=event_41HV35B61C089_1690515625027   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

104 Best sex toys for a submissive

This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack everything under the sun about sex and relationships from desire discrepancy to communication issues to what even is monogamy these days. Emily and Selina discuss common myths and misconceptions surrounding sex and relationships. They discuss:  The most common myth Selina sees when working with clients What does sex therapy actually look like? Should vulva owners orgasm through penetration? Do men want sex more than women? Does penis size matter? Is sex over when a penis ejaculates? Is an erection necessary for sex? If a penis is erect or a vulva lubricated, does that mean that person wants to have sex? Does no desire mean you’re broken Can bad sex be an ick?    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Selina’s website: www.sexedwithsel.com Selina’s Instagram: @sexwith_selSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

Emily is bringing back two episodes a week, except this time Monday's episode will be answering your questions! This week's question was 'what to do and what not to do in an orgy?'. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

102 Do's and don'ts for an orgy

This episode features Bella Johnston an ex-reality star who featured on the Bachelors 2022. Emily and Bella discuss:  Navigating life always horny Bella's best sexual experience The importance of foreplay Haemorrhoids  What make's sex orgasmic for Bella Dating people with a blue tick Bella's experience reviewing sex toys Bella's favourite sex toy Bella's sex tips Bella's experience on the Bachelor Can you masturbate while in the Bachelor mansion?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Bella's Instagram: @spicyjohnstonSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

101 Zappos, sex tips and the Bachelor with Bella Johnston

In the 100th episode, Emily's Dad features on the podcast.  We discuss:  What his sex education was like growing up in the 70/80s What it has been like having a Sexologist as a daughter What he has learnt from Emily about sex and relationships His reflections on what he taught Emily about sex His green and red flags  What he thinks Emily's green and red flags are What he thinks Emily's ideal partner would look like  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

100 Talking about pegging with my Dad!?

In this episode, Emily answers the question is porn bad for you? Emily discusses both the positives and potential harms of porn.  FREE returning to sex after a baby online masterclass sign up link: https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/664262496007  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

099 Is porn bad for you?

In today’s episode, Emily answers a listener’s question about how to engage in belly button play AKA Alvinophilia. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

098 My girlfriend wants to play with my belly button

This is part 2 to a 2-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their July ins, period sex, kinks, masturbation, their sexual awakenings, turn-ons and so much more. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a written review for your chance to receive a discounted individual session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

097 July ins, period sex and sexting

In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their icks, green flags, red flags, orgasming in your sleep, orgasmic sex and rim jobs. This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

096 Orgasming in your sleep, icks and rim jobs

This episode is all about blowjobs. Emily provides different tips so that you can give your sexual partner or partners the best blowjob for them.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Sexologist Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

095 How to give a blowjob

This episode feature Sexologist Bridget Scholes discussing non-monogamy.  Emily and Bridget discuss:  What is non-monogamy? Bridget's experience with non-monogamy. Common 'mistakes' in exploring non-monogamy. How to explore non-monogamy when you don't live in a city. Advice for bringing up the topic of non-monogamy with your partner. Tips for exploring non-monogamy.    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Bridget's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bridgetscholessexology/ Bridget's websites: https://bridgetscholessexology.com.au/ https://www.madamedahlia.com.au/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

094 Exploring non-monogamy with Sexologist Bridget Scholes

This episode features Psychologist Emma St John discussing low sexual desire. Emily and Emma discuss:  What is sexual desire? Spontaneous and responsive desire. Our concerns with how high society thinks sexual desire should be. What impacts our sexual desire. How to begin to reconnect to our sexual desire. Mindfulness techniques that could be used to reconnect to desire. Emma's 8-week therapy sessions on reconnecting to sexual desire.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ https://www.emmastjohn.com.au/ https://www.kingstreetpsychologyclinic.com.au/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

093 Reconnecting to your sexual desire with Psychologist Emma St John

This episode answers a shaggers question “Is the G-Spot real?” Emily answers this question by unpacking the history, research and issues attached. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

092 Is the G-Spot real?

This episode gives you 5 different tips to spice up your sex life when you are single. There is so much information out there on how to spice up your sex life when in a relationship but not for when you are single. This episode addresses that gap.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

091 5 ways to spice up your sex life when you are single

This episode gives you 10 different tips to last longer during sex.  Emily discusses:   How long the average penis owner and vulva owner can take to orgasm How to delay orgasm for both penis owners and hula owners. 10 different tips to delay orgasm  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

090 10 ways to last longer in bed 

This episode features Eric Weinstein from 69 Whiskey Podcast. Emily and Eric discuss kinks and BDSM. Topics include:  Eric’s wildest/funniest sex story Eric’s experience in the kink community Fire play What are high protocol relationships? What do Eric’s high protocol relationships look? Tips for navigating a high protocol relationship Importance of boundaries How to begin exploring BDSM  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com 69 Whiskey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/69whiskeypodcast/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

089 BDSM, fire play and 24/7 dom/sub relationships with Eric Weinstein

This episode features Laura Lee a Psychologist based in Geelong. Laura has her own private practice Blue Space Psychology. Emily and Laura discuss body image and sex. Topics include:  What are the current conversations around body image? What contributes to our perception of our bodies? What is good body image? How to begin to rewrite the relationship we have with our bodies. How body image impacts sex. How to enjoy sex more without being concerned about our bodies.  Using sex for validation.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com Blue Space Psychology Website: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/ Blue Space Psychology Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluespacepsychology/ Google Drive link for Compassionate Hand exercise: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1OfFZA5Hj3Gvps_XgEC2uL6yi6z49HxCF?usp=sharing  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

088 Body image and sex with Psychologist Laura Lee

This episode answers the question ‘can you masturbate too much?’ Emily discusses:  How much masturbation is too much masturbation Can vibrators desensitise your clitoris Impacts of masturbating excessively     FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

087 Can you masturbate too much?

The latest episode is all about Bachelor and Spinster Balls (BNS) AKA country sex parties. Emily discusses what a BNS is, the history of BNS balls and what to expect when attending one. Emily also shares listeners’ stories who have attended a BNS.  BNS video link Emily mentions is below: https://video.vice.com/en_au/video/tits-tinnies-and-true-love/564cb3309e64b9ce7b03505c   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

086 Bachelor & Spinster Balls - the country sex party

This episode is all about threesomes. Emily discusses what threesomes are and how to have them. Emily discusses:   What to do first if you want to have a threesome How to find people to have a threesome with How to discuss your desire to have a threesome with your partner What you need to communicate before, during and after a threesome Threesome tips  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

085 How to have a threesome

This episode features Indi Gage the co-host of Hot Girls Theory. Indi has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender, Sexuality and Diversity studies.  In this episode, Emily and Indi discuss Feminism and sex. Topics include:  What is feminism? How does feminism interact with sex? Performative sex, is it ok to do? Is it anti-feminist to like blow jobs? Condoms during oral sex What condoms are good to use for blowjobs Will sex ever not revolve around penetration?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.com Listen to Hot Girls Theory: https://www.hotgirlstheory.com/ Hot Girls Theory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hotgirlstheory/ Indi's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fueledbyindi/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

084 Is it anti-feminist to like giving blowjobs? with Indi Gage

This episode features Kate Duncan an Occupational Therapist who works with children and adults on the autism spectrum.  Trigger warning this episode does discuss sexual abuse.  In this episode, Emily and Kate discuss ASD and sex. Topics include:  How ASD can interact with sex Navigating overstimulation Ableism and sex Navigating sexual relationship with ASD or dating somebody living on the spectrum  Abuse (TRIGGER WARNING) How can we better support those living with ASD  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

083 Autism Spectrum Disorder and sex with Kate Duncan 

This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode. Emily and Marisa discuss:  What is self-love? What has Marisa’s journey with self-love been like? Maintaining self-love while dating Marisa’s experience stopping the use of dating apps How to begin your self-love journey Toxic positivity Building confidence  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Marisa’s website: https://www.selfishsesh.com/ Selfish Sesh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selfishsesh/ Selfish Sesh Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7kikdRI9g4zYkGPVjU6KpN?si=Drd2pg9wTyiS57p7lVIB1g&amp;nd=1See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

082 How to find self-love with Marisa Jayne 

This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating &amp; relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as a writer focusing on love, dating, sex and relationships. Over the years Jess has used her insights and observations to help educate men and women about how to navigate the ups and downs of dating. Jess coaches clients in a 1:1 capacity, regularly features on podcasts and contributes to various media pieces about the complexities of the modern dating world. Emily and Jess discuss:  How to date in your 20's What questions to ask somebody to determine their values Is chemistry something we can grow? What are the benefits of modern-day dating in Western culture How to date organically without dating apps Partner privileges  How to navigate fuck boys  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book in a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ The Boy Detox website: https://www.theboydetox.com/ The Boy Detox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theboydetox/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

081 How to date in your 20s with Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox

In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a sex coaching session with Emily book online at www.emilyduncansexology.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

080 How to squirt

In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

079 23 things I have learnt about sex

This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health Emily and Chloe discuss:  What is a pelvic floor? Pelvic floor conditions penis owners experience  Incontinence and how to treat it Prostate cancer surgery and incontinence  Dyssynergic defecation Stress and your pelvic floor Pelvic pain Erectile difficulties When should you see a pelvic floor physio What to expect when seeing a pelvic floor physiotherapist   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Chloe’s Website: https://www.theladyphysioandpilates.com/ Chloe’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.lady.physio/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

078 Penis owners, you have a pelvic floor too with Chloe Burger

Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking. This episode features Talisin Switch.  Emily and Talisin discuss:  What is the difference between a kink and a fetish The most common fetishes Talisin sees as a sex worker How do feet fetishes form? What is choking/strangulation? How to practice choking more safely (there’s no safe way) The issues with choking during sex How to protect yourself if you are being choked when you don’t want to be Why you may experience chest pain after choking during sex  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/ Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071 Talisin’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talisinswitch/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

077 Foot fetishes and choking with Talisin Switch

This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin considers themselves an academic practitioner and informs their work and teaching in both evidence-based practice and lived experience. Emily and Talisin discuss:  How did Talisin get into sex work How people can explore their queer identity with sex workers Benefits of seeing a sex worker for exploring your sexuality Exploring sex with gender dysphoria to affirm gender What to expect in your first session with a sex worker Tips for people searching for a queer sex worker    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Talisin’s Website: https://talisinswitch.com/ Queering sex workshop Melbourne: https://events.humanitix.com/queering-sex-and-how-we-think-about-it?_ga=2.16114230.1006150461.1670455159-1710799895.1670222071 Talisin’s Instagram and Twitter: @talisinswitchSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

076 Exploring Queer identity and sexuality through sex work with Talisin Switch

The final episode of season 3. Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

075 The worst first date...ever

This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator.  Emily and Lama discuss:  What the sexual culture is like in Malaysia  Lama’s experience as a Malaysian Indian woman in Australia navigating sex and sexuality Encouraging penis owners to use sex toys for their own pleasure Exploring pleasure with sex toys  Internalised shame and colourism Advice for those with a similar cultural background who want to further step into their sexuality How Lama got into creating sex-positive content  Assumptions of Lama as a sex-positive creator  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Natasha’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/browngirl.sexology/    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

074 Navigating your sex life as a Malaysian Indian woman with Natasha

In this episode, Emily discusses the signs to know if you have orgasmed. This episode does have a focus on vulva owner orgasms.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Emily Duncan Sexology: www.emilyduncansexology.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

073 How do I know if I have orgasmed?

This episode features Sarah Lajeunesse, a certified and award-winning coach, speaker and shame healer who helps humans heal the areas of shame in their lives that prevent them from experiencing a greater and richer quality of life that's possible.  Emily and Sarah discuss:  Effiel towers Shame and sex Fish hooks What contributes the most to shame  Having conversations about how you want to be respected in a relationship Being supported by others in moments of embarrassment and how that experience can contribute to future shame How to recognise shame before it overwhelms you Taking responsibility for the harm you may cause in a relationship The discomfort of the unknown in sex and dating How Sarah works with shame  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Instagram: sarah.lajeunesse Facebook: sarah.lajeunesse.coaching Website: www.sarahlajeunesse.com VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

072 Eiffel towers, fish hooks and shame with Sarah Lajeunesse

This episode features Jess and Lawerence the founders of Our Secret Spot, a sex club in Sydney.  Emily, Jess and Lawerence discuss:  How they entered the swinging lifestyle and the experiences they have had What you can expect when you visit a sex club Are there more couples or singles? Why they are seeing more single women at these events What is the typical age at a sex club? How sex clubs can build your confidence in practising consent Their favourite experiences in sex clubs/parties Advice for single males wanting to attend a sex club  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Our Secret Club website: https://oursecretspot.com.au/ Our Secret Club Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oursecretspot/ VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

071 An introduction to sex clubs with Our Secret Spot

In this episode, Emily celebrates the podcast’s 2 year anniversary. Emily discusses 5 things she has learned from 2 years of podcasting. These 5 things include:  Consistency is key Be passionate You may outgrow your content and that’s ok Networking is key Centring your podcast around your audience is great but centring it around what you want to know is even better  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

070 5 things I have learned from 2 years of podcasting

This episode features Sexologist, Nutritionist, Dietitian and Menstrual Blood Witch Gem Campbell (they/them). We discuss periods and how you can tap into your period's power. Topics discussed:   Prominent issues surrounding periods within society  What power do periods hold How we can tap into that power Healing your relationship with your period How your period can allow you to tap into your inner slut What needs to change in society to support those who menstruate  The programs Gem offers  Free Blood Ritual Resource: https://iamawildgem.com/menstrual-blood-ritual Period Self-Care Guide: https://iamawildgem.com/shop Blood Magik Discount Code for 30% off at checkout: thatsorgasmic  Book a 1:1 Sex Coaching:  https://iamawildgem.com/sex-coaching Book a 1:1 Nutrition Coaching: https://iamawildgem.com/nutrition-coaching Website: https://www.iamawildgem.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebloodslut/ For any inquires, email us: gem@iamawildgem.com VUSH discount code: THATSORGASMIC40 (for couples play items only)      See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

069 Harnessing the power of your period with Gem Campbell

This episode is a recording from another podcast 'Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable' that Emily was a guest on.  We discuss:     •    Being sexually expressed    •    How your sexual upbringing influences how you show up in sex    •    Shame &amp; guilt around sex    •    Tips around feeling more confident in sex    •    How to empower yourself    •    Our take on cancel culture Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable podcast link: https://open.spotify.com/show/4JtGyUSUSDJfzqYcjdxg1i?si=n_tt98EpTQKZjCr1W5cX_A  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

068 Bonus episode: Get comfortable being uncomfortable

Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.  Emily and Alysha discuss:  Pansexuality, what is it and what does it mean to Alysha? Bisexuality vs Pansexuality vs Queer Alysha’s journey with her sexuality Internalised homophobia  Am I queer enough? Queer sexual and relationship scripts Advice for those wanting to explore their sexuality Alysha’s experience being HSV+ Sexual health in vulva and vulva sex Herpes testing process  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Alysha’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexiselfcare_/ Here to F*ck Spiders Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/heretofckspiderspodcast/ Here to F*ck Spiders Podcast Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/show/33qarnMRAs4QJL55ub7JUl?si=-aWKTvosTB6WqVgsDA45KQ  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

067 Pansexuality and living with Herpes as a Queer woman with Alysha

This episode is about stepping into your power after a relationship to thrive.  Key points:  Emily shares a personal experience Questions to ask yourself if you don’t think your relationship is serving you How you can step into your power  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

066 Stepping into your power after a breakup

Alysha Oorjitham features in this episode.  Emily and Alysha discuss Occupational Therapy, disability and sexual health.  Topics discussed:  How Occupational Therapists can support an individual’s sexuality  The importance of people living with disabilities to be educated on sex, sexual health and sexuality What work still needs to be done within Occupational Therapy and sexual health Assumptions healthcare professionals make Being a token Queer in the workplace  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Alysha’s Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/sexiselfcare_/ Here to F*ck Spiders Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/heretofckspiderspodcast/ Here to F*ck Spiders Podcast Spotify link: https://open.spotify.com/show/33qarnMRAs4QJL55ub7JUl?si=-aWKTvosTB6WqVgsDA45KQ  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

065 Supporting sexuality through Occupational Therapy with Alysha

In this episode, Emily shares all the details of her new business Emily Duncan Sexology launching the 22/11/22. Emily discusses:  Being sexual and professional  What services are offered What to expect in a session The prices Another exciting announcement   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

064 Business launch: Emily Duncan Sexology

This episode features Zoe a woman in her 20s living with Vaginismus.  Emily and Zoe discuss:  What is Vaginismus? Zoe's experience with getting diagnosed Tips for getting a diagnosis Zoe's treatment experience How has Vaginismus impacted dating for Zoe Casual sex and vaginismus  Tips for those who want to date casually with Vaginismus  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

063 Dating with Vaginismus with Zoe

This episode features Victoria Redbard the founder of The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy. Emily and Victoria discuss:  How the sexuality industry is developing When trauma-informed practice meets the cutting edge Letting go of your ego Clinical Sexology compared to the Self-Pleasure Certification  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com The Institute of New Paradigm Intimacy website: https://newparadigmintimacy.com/ Victoria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victoriaredbard/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

062 The development of sexuality industry and letting go of your ego with Victoria Redbard

This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing starting her own sex toy company. Emily and Lanchi discuss:  Why Lanchi decided to create her own sex toys The process of designing sex toys How the people around Lanchi responded to creating her company What is something that is Orgasmic to Lanchi?  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Lanchi's Website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

061 Starting a sex toy company with Lanchi

This episode features Lanchi the founder of Buzz.selflove, discussing how to choose your first sex toy. Emily and Lanchi discuss:  What makes a good sex toy? Looking at how you use your hand to masturbate to choose a sex toy  Popular first-time sex toys How to clean your sex toy How to store your sex toy  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Lanchi's website: https://buzzselflove.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

060 How to choose a sex toy with Lanchi

This episode is masturbating tips and tricks for those with a Penis. Emily discusses:  Reflecting on how you masturbate How you can change your masturbation practice Different techniques Lube Sex toys Don’t focus on an erection Continuing to pleasure yourself after ejaculation  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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